ORGASM | Just say that “I DIDN’T CUM"

ORGASM | Just say that “I DIDN’T CUM"

You start Oohing and ahhing over, screaming, convulsing and even crying- you decide to have this great performance after a long hard fight with your partner.

You know that you didn’t reach climax, although it was a huge pleasure wrapping around with your man.

Why Fake your Orgasm?

There is a study about this topic, which surveyed over a thousand American women between the ages of 18 and 94, found that over half of them had pretended to orgasm during sex.

We are not saying that men don’t do this, they will also fake the climax. But it’s more challenging, he might be able to take off the condom if he use it, before his partner realizes that he didn’t ejaculate.

But this phenomenon is much more common in women.

The reason why people fake orgasm is complex. Sometimes they just want the thrusting to end when they know they orgasm is not coming. Some want their partner to believe that they enjoyed the experience, and some don't want their partner feel inadequate or anxious about performance the next time they have sex.

Nothing feels more wonderful than having an orgasm.

When you are cuming, sexual tension reaches a peak, and your body and genitals’ pressure is released.

The muscles in your vagina or penis, as well as your anus, will contract constantly for seconds. Your heart rate and breathing levels also run up.

During an orgasm, a man will have ejaculation and penis usually squirts some semen, a women’s vagina may get really wet, muscles may twitch or spasm, and many women experience rhythmic muscle spasms in the vagina.

Women might have orgasm from stimulating their clitoris, or from stimulating the G-Spot: the front wall of the vagina. But do you know in fact they come from one place? So there is no such thing as, which type of orgasm is of higher level or essentially better then the other one.

But the way how you reach them is different.

HOW DO I GET MY ORGASM?

Well there are several types of orgasm. Critoral, Vaginal, Anal, Erogenous Zone Orgasm...

If you are still exploring them, here are some tips might help you reach the peak.

Clitarol Orgasm

One of the best ways to stimulate the clitoris is rubbing gently by the fingers or tongue in a back and forth or circular way.

Once it begins to get wet, rub your clit faster and harder repeatedly. When the orgasm begins to strengthen the feeling, apply heavy pressure and get your finish.

Vaginal Orgasm

For the queen who has had the vaginal orgasm, congratulation, you have experienced one of the most pleasure feeling. But as above mentioned, there isn’t an orgasm hierarchy.

Insert a finger, your playmates’s penis or a dildo/vibrator into vigina. Then this is how you could stimulate the G-Spot:

Doing the penetrating toward the belly button, with this angle your G-Spot will be rubed and massaged. Using the pressures that feels good along this hot-spot. Repeat the motions till the feelings build up, your G-spot will get hot and feels swell, and arrives to it’s peak in the end.

Anal Orgasm

Everyone can have anal orgasm, but the reason or the organ causes it is different for the people who has a penis and has vaginas.

For men or people with penis, anal penetration can stimulate the prostate; and for women or people with vaginas, anal penetration can stimulate the clitoral legs, as well as the A-spot or G-spot.

To get anal orgasm, the key could be the lube, as butts don’t get wet naturally. And you should warm up and be aroused at first by rubbing the outside of the anal opening. Then try tapping, circling, or pressing against the wall. Till you feel it right.

Erogenous Zone Orgasms

You can achieve the erogenous zone orgasms through a lot of experimentation.
Neck, ear, nipples, feet... You may can climax kissing, licking, or sucking yours sweet zones.

And remember, don’t rush. Before any penetration, the receiver should always be aroused enough first.

JUST LET THEM KNOW WHAT YOU NEED

To know more about your body, it’s important to taking time to enjoy pleasure by yourself, so that it could be more easy to reach orgasm with a partner.
Don’t get upset if one partner does not cum regularly, just tell each other that that what you used to do isn’t working for me anymore. Guide your partner’s hands, mouth, or member where you want them to your hot spot. Also, it’s a good opprotunity to suggest introducing vibrators or massager into the play if you haven’t before.

Because using a vibrator is a highly satisfaying and efficient way to get Eye-Popping Orgasms. 
These tools are not a partner replacement but a sexual enhancement… so no need to get jealous!

And here in Juici Lucy, to achieve climax, you can always find what fit you most for masturbation also for couples sex.

*Juici Lucy Vibrators


--If you are exploring the clitoral orgasm, you will find what you need in Clitoral Stimulators, or if you are more likely to enjoy the licking or sucking, Tongue Licking Vibrator could be your best choice.

--If you are explore orgasm from vaginal penetration, G-Spot Vibrator will not let you down.

--For the Anal orgasm explorer, no matter you are with penis or vagina, Anal Vibrators will be where you be thrilled for.

--Looking for something more exciting? You should try a Dual Stimulation Toy, that you could achieve a combo orgasm.

Look! There are so many way that you could get the heaven pleasure with your partne.

Fake your Orgasm? Stop it!
And your partner's ego is not that fragile and you don't need to lie to protect him/her.
Much less the one will be more hurt during countless performances is you yourself. As faking an orgasm is like giving your dog a treat after he tears up the pillow.

In the end, we should always keep this in our mind:
Not all sex requires an orgasm, and orgasms don’t mean the sex is great. Orgasm may not happen all the time because it’s a complex process.

Rather than a big climax, focusing on the intimacy shared can make sex more fulfilling for partners.

Orgasm is heaven, but it’s not the only purpose. Sex most often should felt connected, playful, exploratory, and even transcendent. Maybe what most important is, LOVE.

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